Life!!

Nan's Hens Party!!!

It's been a very long time, since we had a great time together! Love you guys!!

Live My Life List for six months!!!

1. Donate blood - twice 
2.No Dating, have 3 more guy friends
3.Sent my parents to Bali 
4.Bike Licence
5.Basic climbing course
6. Learn Chinese, Malay (fluent)
7.Lose 35 kg and be hot and have six pack(10kg done!!)
8.Come up with 30 original recipes (done 5)
9. Fruits detox at least three days 
10.Drink 2 litres of water everyday 
11.Get fresh flowers for myself and mother at least 3 times (got 2 fresh flowers for the family plus one for my sis)
12. Do a budget and live with it 
13.have a photo shoot for yourself and also add with friends and family
14. Organise a dragon boat outing
15.Watch sunrise and sun set in one day
16.Jump in the pool with full of clothes 
17.Hike in life volcano 
18.Watch a live stand up comedy show (KUMAR) (watched it with sis,chelvam and raja)...funny as hell...
19. Learn how to meditate
20.Go on a holiday by myself
21.Dance as if no one is watching 
22. Read at least 50 books (6 books so far)
23. Go for personal therapy
24. Take a dance class (HIPHOP, REGGAE AND SALSA)
25.learn how to walk in high heels 
26. Change of fashion
27. Find a spiritual/life coach
28. Medi/Pedi – 5 times
29. Take a pottery class
30. Learn how to play golf
31. Start baking 
32. Rebuild relationship with friends and family (doing a day at a time)
33. Spend quality time with OM (doing on a daily)
34. Take up art classes
35. Start writing journals and tracking my behaviour, spending habits (doing via email)
36. Become an Early Riser. Start waking up at 5.30
37. Go out with a guy who makes you laugh ‘til it hurts.
38. Volunteer
39. Start drinking green tea and TCM on a regular basis
40. Do a jigsaw puzzle
41. Run a 21k marathon 
42. Go On a Road Trip with a Friend. 
43. Spa date with girlfriends
44. Get a tattoo 
45. Climb a mountain 
46. Go to a music festival
47. Dance in the rain  - revathy wants to do with me
48. Find 5 life mentors 
49. Perform a kind deed without expecting anything in return
50. Find an overseas job
51. Make my own sanctuary (room)
52. Blow bubbles like before with picnic – revathy 
53. Have a Meaningful Conversation With a Stanger
54. Learn a New Software Program
55. Surprise White party for Meena akka
56. Have Harry potter marathon day
57. Have lord of the ring marathon day
58. Brush up on my Tamil 
59. Indoor sky diving 
60. Adventure park
61. Go for the tree top walk 
62. Sleep under the stars 
63. Go for a photography class and start taking pictures

64. Go horseback riding

65. Become skilled with a music instrument

66. Do ten random surprises for 10 special friends

67. Go in Pyjamas to the Movies

68. Try Every Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream Flavor

69. Scare all my female colleagues in Office

70. Get into a Martial Art

71. Café Hopping at least 10 places

72. Dance in a Latin club

73. Have a six pack

74. Fly a kite day and night

75. Do 30 acts random acts of kindness

76. Ride in a canoe and/or kayak

77. Invite your bffs over for a DIY craft night

78. Go stand up Paddling

79. Go for a high tea and art jamming session

80. Challenge yourself at Megazip

81. Swimming and Feel on top of Singapore at the Marina Bay Sands Skypark

82. Shoot paintballs at Red Dynasty

83. Hike at Mount Faber

84. Dinner or breakfast at Cable car

85. Singapore sling at Raffles Hotel

86. Go for Fullerton Hotel Friday Chocolate Buff– revathy

87. Fly a Kite on the Marina Barrage

88. Taichi 

89. Bikini Wax with sister

90. Dinner at KU DÉ TA

91. Go for CATS Musical (jan 2015)

92. Fly a Kite on the Marina Barrage

93. Exploring Bukit Timah Jurong Railway

94. Get freaky at Haw Par Villa

95. Explore the abandoned Neo Tiew HDB Estate

96. Join an woman activist group.

97. Ride in a rickshaw 

98. Explore Wade Boarding

99. Go for a Reiki Class

100. Go to the beach to read and people watch

Amen!

Every Ending has a New Beginning!

To the one I used to call my everything,

It's been 4 months since we call it quits.  

I asked myself on a constant basis,

How could I fall in love with a man who does not love or even know my heart?

Is love really blind?....blah blah blah

You know what, I don’t want to talk about you already.

Let’s talk about me.

I just experience my first official heartbreak and it’s exciting.

Though it was not really my choice to call it quits, I have to agree that this is the best decision ever!

I’ve not have not been angry, depress and anxious for the past four months and I never thought that I will be so happy and thankful to god for constantly teaching me new things about life.  I’ve got my happiness and freedom back. I’ve have my friends (social life is blooming), I love my Job, I am extremely spiritual and most importantly my relationship with my family is awesome. Super positive wahahahaha... I am so thankful that even though I’ve lost one person, I’ve gain so much more. I hope things are great on your end. Like I told you before, I want nothing but the best for you.

I want to thank you for being a part of my life

I have never regretted being with you, in fact you taught me a lot of good values, patience, tolerance, my tamil is better because of you, and most importantly I now know what I want in a husband (qualities etc).

Thank you for letting me go.

I agree with you that we are not right for one another.

You deserve someone who has the same belief system like you and your family. I think you should know about me that I don't know how to pretend to be something i am not.

I don't think i will be happy with what u wanted me to be infront of your family.

My only wish for you is to build up your self esteem, be strong and be able to stand up for yourself. Stop playing victim.

I forgive you and your family and most importantly I forgive myself.

Thank you once again and goodbye!

PS: No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. YOLO!